The Need for Foreplay - How Warming Up Helps

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The idea of sex is a controversial one. In most cultures, sex is spoken with supreme consideration and care. The words associated with sex fall on the ears of those that have been chosen to hear them. I am sure that most of us recognize it when sex has been a taboo topic, or at least an awkward situation at some point.

Then again, we find that sex is such an integral part of our whole being. Whether this is done with others or by ourselves, it goes to show its significance nonetheless. Sex can be seen in two specific contexts here, for reproductive reasons, and social-recreational pleasure. Sometimes, they even go hand in hand!

When sex is concerned, we take the subject of foreplay to have a role in the matter. Foreplay goes beyond just simply touching the sensitive erogenous zones of the body. It serves to stimulate arousal utilizing the physical, mental, aural and oral.

If we associate foreplay with the term sexual touching, the concept of it becomes clearer. Sexual touching boils down to a warm-up in sex. Like all physical activity, doing our best to prepare the body beforehand is essential. After all, nobody wants to be out of shape for it.

Being spicy in sex takes effort and great thoughtfulness. We receive the call to be tactful in honing the right momentum for things to build. Foreplay fondles with anticipation, and it excites the senses. This is so that we may experience sex to its utmost peak.

The need for this beckons towards the notion of emotional and physical intimacy. A 2009 study published by the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality found that an element of optimal sexual satisfaction lies with close empathy in terms of verbal and non-verbal communication.

Indeed, body language, orgasmic moans, and voicing out preferences are quintessential to wonderful coitus. This is how foreplay complements it well. It adds to the mix and invites an escalation of things soon after. Truly, a good host at a party.

It does this by accentuating the physical levels of arousal. Every stroke brings virility, and every kiss provokes desire. Neurotransmitters and hormones like Oxytocin are released by the brain at the moment, serving to combat stress and reduce all distractions from it.

We become attuned to the gravitas of feeling in foreplay. The body tells the brain to direct all attention to these physiological sensations forming. Slowly and surely, we begin to bond in this act. Thrown in a sensual climb, we are urged to then carry on with foreplay together, for each other.

Warming up with foreplay aids in fostering emotional closeness as well. The intimate nature of this creates safety and security for us. There is trust being built as we come into it bearing our vulnerable parts. This vulnerability is not just with our bodies, but also the mind. Foreplay encourages us to open up with both.

So, connecting through the mind and body with foreplay assures us of a comforting, sexual warmth. This is engaging and healthy. It even leads to greater chances of better orgasms, which is coveted by many. Sexual tension increases during foreplay, and it will blow eventually.

The longer foreplay goes on, the more irresistible you become, bringing things to climax soon enough. Suffice it to say, foreplay can be done in many ways. Yet, it achieves the same result each time. Passion and purpose. That is what makes foreplay so important in sex.

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